I Am Lost

gold-colored desert

This a feeling of being lost, which pops now and then in your 20s. Which eventually is an indication of a hurry you are in to settle in life and taste things above your current circumstances.

It is all mostly influenced by the surroundings. We create a lot expectations burden on ourselves in the name of dreams, security, success, what the meaning of life and all that kind of self talks comes in our minds. If we are the one who aspires to be seen as successful person in the eyes of others, then feeling of being lost is natural in life as we seek clarity.

The need to feel heard, respected, admired, appreciated, to be given a priority. This all encourages to commit to something which gets us started on achieving the life we aspire to live.
As soon as we enter into such a arrangement in the hope of such achievements.

Ironically, we then start feeling like am I doing the right thing. Is it the only thing I should do. Then we start to realise that did we took the decision for the sake of taking a decision and are not actually happy with what we choose.

We again start to feel the same way we did when we were not doing anything of this sort.
We start to realise reality so different than our expectations in the imagination. The myths gets bursted in just a matter of time.

What should you actually do instead is to explore and follow your curiosity. This will take you to a place, you would never thought to be possible. Keep the spirit high think of the long term. Explore everything possible unless you find something that you would settle with forever in terms of wealth, health and relationships.

2 thoughts on “I Am Lost

  1. Wonderfully penned down thoughts on the harsh reality of the burden of expectations that one faces

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