Just few days back, I came across an incident where my past experiences, were putting me in a bad spot regarding my driving skills. Some of my mates were not ready to come along, if I was to drive the car for upcoming journey.

They were saying things like – he is not a person who drives well, we can not risk being with him as a Driver for this journey.

They were putting me down by talking repetitively about my past failures, they were not wrong in their perspective. So I decided to change this notion for once and all. Even though they left me, by not joining me for the ride.

I also thought for a while, what is the worst that will happen if their notion comes to be true, yet I gave myself some deep breathes and said to myself I am the best, I can do it.

I took it as a challenge, drove for the whole journey. It was a great experience. I reached safely and easily at the destination.

Few Lessons after this incident

1. Always Believe in yourself more than anything else
2. Take challenges more often
3. You are more capable than you think
4. You can achieve anything, you put your mind on.
5. Having a positive self talk to yourself is very very important when no one believes in you.
6. People will stay speechless, if you are not willing to give up.
7. Second guessing yourself can lower your confidence.

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There are many times where you feel like nothing much is happening, nothing is changing, everything feels like you are not going anywhere.

You think what should you do in this situation and how to get easy with yourself and happy in those times.

There are many reasons that may have caused such feeling, Below are some of them you can look up to

1. You are not taking action on something that you want.
2. You are living alone rather than socialising.
3. You are constantly comparing yourself to others saying yourself how lucky they are.
4. You are not committed to anything whether it’s in work or Relationships.
5. You look life as a linear progression where everything comes in a format and you are ready to accept that you can be wrong.
6. You are protecting your social image which people have formed over these years, you are falling into the trap commitment and consistency bias.

Here are a few things listed down. There can be end number of reasons to such a feeling

There is only one way out of these circumstances
Just be yourself, act upon what is stopping you, never suppress your authentic self.

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